Do you ever hear yourself saying, “I wish it was Friday already,” or find yourself wishing away the weeks leading up to Christmas due to all the stress and busyness. (Unless, of course, you happen to be one of those crazy organized people who start their shopping in July! (I’m just jealous, really.))
It is a natural reaction to want to get through something you dread, or get to a day you’re looking forward to, but life goes by much too fast to wish it away.
Don’t forget about today!
At a young age, we start learning to be independent and hear of the importance of being self-reliant. “If you want something done right, do it yourself,” they say.
I had subscribed to this myself, but more and more I’m learning it’s not always true. Yes, I love being thought of as the capable, reliable one. Yes, sometimes it will turn out better if I do it myself. But I have discovered that not admitting you need help is a weakness.
We are not meant to do it all by ourselves. Families, friends, and co-workers – each of these people have a place in our lives, and they are there for a purpose. They are there not only to accomplish their own goals but to contribute as a whole – as part of a community.
Pushing, earning, competing, hectic, worried, hurried, short tempered. Though these words are the converse of what I would purposefully choose my life to be, this described me.
What would it take to change this? Continue reading
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Saying yes can be a wonderful thing. It makes it possible to learn new things, meet new people, have beautiful experiences, and accomplish things you never knew you could.
However, not being careful with what you say yes to can cause your life to be out of balance. Continue reading
I found this book at the perfect time in my life. I had already realized the key theme of this book and had begun making changes in my life. This book wonderfully complemented my plan and expanded, explained, and put into words exactly what I was experiencing. (If it wasn’t already taken, and I had been clever enough to have thought of it myself, Present Over Perfect would be a great title for my blog.) Continue reading
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One of my biggest goals is to achieve balance in life – even as I realize this is impossible. Being successful in one area of life inevitably means another is suffering to some degree. However, this doesn’t mean I am giving up on the idea. The more realistic goal is to bring more balance into my life by remembering my priorities and remaining aware that not everything in life can be given full attention concurrently. Continue reading